Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.

Savage Love Episode 1041
Savage LovecastOctober 20, 2026
1041
00:54:40

Savage Love Episode 1041

A 25 year-old queer, plus-size woman has never been in a relationship or had sex. Both her size and virginity make it hard to connect with people through the apps. How can she break through these barriers and get some lovin' already? A married woman for 18 years with kids is sick to death of her lif...

After Action Report #51
Savage LovecastOctober 16, 2026
51
00:18:07

After Action Report #51

What’s it like to be a bearded, 6’4″, 250 pounc fella getting his nails done in preparation for the first crossdressing session with his wife? Dust off your gender studies 101 textbook and find out. Tell us about your…transgressions.Q@Savage.Love This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-f...

Savage Love Episode 1040
Savage LovecastOctober 13, 2026
1040
00:55:34

Savage Love Episode 1040

A divorced father of adult children understood himself to be bisexual later in life. He digs men in an aromantic, casual sex kind of way. Is he obligated to tell his family? Does his connections with men fall under private sex life or public identity? A woman went to a sex party and met a hot female...

After Action Report #50
Savage LovecastOctober 09, 2026
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00:16:10

After Action Report #50

Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before… Hear all about her dusty experience. What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm?Write up your experience (good or bad) and send it to Q@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundr...

Savage Love Episode 1039
Savage LovecastOctober 06, 2026
1039
00:59:20

Savage Love Episode 1039

A gay man in his 60s is perplexed about foot fetishes, and what is so damn sexy about his feet. A man is frustrated by the concept of "false positives" when he tests for herpes. What on earth is going on here? Dan brings on the delightful and calming Dr. Ina Park to explain the whole testing situati...

After Action Report #49
Savage LovecastOctober 02, 2026
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00:20:38

After Action Report #49

What's in the duffel bag? On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle. But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve? After a bad experience at home, Julia had a re-discovery of her best sexual self. Have a listen. And then send us your story! Q@Savage....

Savage Love Episode 1038
Savage LovecastSeptember 29, 2026
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00:58:36

Savage Love Episode 1038

We begin the show...drunkenly. A lit lady enjoys the sensation of touching ears. Room temperature, or slightly chilled. Not too cold. But "ear porn?" Is that a thing? A lucky fella won a three-month free entry to his local bathhouse. Whatever should he do when he's in there? Our guest this week is A...

After Action Report #48
Savage LovecastSeptember 25, 2026
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00:15:53

After Action Report #48

Just how polite are Canadians? Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam. Name a lake after this guy! Tell us your story, right away!Send it to Q@Savage.Love This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated sup...

Savage Love Episode 1037
Savage LovecastSeptember 22, 2026
1037
00:49:30

Savage Love Episode 1037

Grapefruiting! It's a new sex act involving fruit! Can *any* word be verbed? Apparently! A woman wonders how anyone can successfully fake an orgasm, when the physical contractions should be noticeably felt. On the Magnum, Dan brings on a guest to definitively answer the question you all have: How lo...

After Action Report #47
Savage LovecastSeptember 18, 2026
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00:17:58

After Action Report #47

No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date. Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot. Hear her story, get turned on. If YOU have a delicious tale to tell, write it down and send it in to Q@Savage.Love. Thi...